THE FIRST STEP TO SOLVE ANY PROBLEM

Hi guys.

Everybody has problems.. some people even go and pay people to hear their problems and get a solution for it.. even i am one of them..

when I broke up with my girlfriend in 2012.. and  didn't take it very well... what I took instead was smoking and drinking.. and getting wasted ..

this was not the solution because all i did was keep thinking about the problem and do you know where that leads to... QUESTIONS...

you'll have so many question in mind about the problems and all that happened to starting with the very basic on - " why does this always happen to me?? "..

The secret behind finding a solution to all your problems is to stop asking questions and start searching for answers.. what is the point of having a pile of questions without answers.. which is going to keep corroding the mind and affect your health whereas we can search for the answers to the question and tackle them one after the other..

when i broke up with my ex-girlfriend .. I couldn't get over it for a very long time and i want to know why because i was trying to make a fresh start and i couldn't move on... but one day i got a call from her and i got my answers.. she had moved on and started sharing her life with another guy and i thought to myself.. i had wasted so many days thinking about the breakup when i could have moved on in a second if i wanted to..

all i had to do is search for the answer.. for my question which was just a phone call away from me..

LIFE TEACHES A LOT OF STUFF BUT NOT EVERYTHING.. SOME YOU LEARN FOR OTHER PEOPLE'S MISTAKE.. 
LEARN FROM THIS..

TAKE YOUR FIRST STEP.. START FINDING THE ANSWERS FOR YOUR QUESTIONS..