MessingWith_Life

The problem we face with a step-mom/dad and step-bros/sis.. I don't know about the lifestyle outside India except for the one they show in the movies in which its very simple.. either they step-people are evil or they are good In India , we are taught by our elders to treat everybody with respect even if you hate them and this creates a big problem because you'll never know even whether your own family member likes you or not until he/she has had enough of you and yells at you or starts doing stuff behind your back.. The same thing kind of happened to me when my dad got married again in 2010 which totally changed my life.. At that time I was in my 12th std and it was a five months before my annual examinations. Initially it was fine.. Having a step mom had its perks because we got a new cook who actually knew how to cook unlike my dad.. ( great man - took care of me and my sister for eight years till he got married in 2010. he did all the house hold work.. of course we h...

Hey guys.. Its 1 AM and I am unable to sleep at night.. And i was just thinking about my childhood days before all the mobiles came in to picture.. I used to listen to my radio and there was this guy who used to speak about relationships and it was broadcasted eveyday night.. So some relationship advise.. And this does not pertain to just girlfriend and boyfriend .. All the relationships need some sacrifices and compromises.. Sometimes some couples have 100% compatability from the start but all the others achieve that through the former mentioned things.. So when someone close to you ask you to spend some time with them or ask a favour but you have some other work.. Its better to help them somehow.. It always keeps the relationship smooth.. But the other person should be mature enough to know how much they can expect from you.. You dont want people taking advantage of you.. And we wont realise when people close to us take advantage of us because We will be blinded by the love...

hi.. for people who want to reduce the weight.. how to do it.. for starters.. let me remind you .. this is just my opinion.. take it in a positive way.. first lets face the basic problem.. if you are over weight and you think you are fine with it.. if you have made up your mind that you will look good only if you are chubby (i had that idea for 3 yrs).. these are just excuse for us to escape out of working out everyday.. its because our body will not allow us to break a sweat... the body rules the mind for people like us and this is what we have to change which is the first crucial step towards losing weight.. Make up your mind to eat only healthy food and in the right amount till you achieve the shape you have in your mind.. the second important stuff is working out.. the effectiveness not just lies on the workout but also the type of work out  you do.. for us.. first we need stamina to do the other hard exercises .. like the ones with the weights.. so to achieve th...

hey.. good news.. had 26 page views. thanks guys. See.. you know the common advise everybody gives you is that life is hard on you.. it makes you wanna give up on everything you do.. and to top it off there are people who get everything in life very easily.. i know you get the feeling that I am a jealous person.. But sometimes is so unfair that I have to work so hard to get something get something in life that others get so easily and yes I KNOW EVERYONE feels that way about something in your life. Like I dont have a driver's license but everybody else does.. But you know what .. I just have to suck it up and get over it.. and i do that by diverting my mind by watching movies.. can you guys suggest me some ways to do my diverting thing in a more productive way rather that waste my time in movies.. pls feel free to comment...

Hey.. Im over weight so all my hobbies are such that I dont have to move much.. Im a amature guitarist.. I am a little techie.. Im into networking. .. Yes im kind off a nerd.. I do play squash and tabletennis.. I have a liking for photography..

My first log.. hi guys.. I am not writing to attract people to read..  Its just a way of letting thing out from my heart and love to have people to comment so that I can understand myself better.. i would also write about techie stuff because i like technology.. so who ever reads it.. i hope you learn something from it. this is Jeswenth ..